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People passing by.



Walking on the road, we barely notice the people around us. Even if we do we're usually worried about what they might think of us .Everyday, we meet many people, some we're acquainted with, while some others who are dear to us.
As life goes on we realize that people come and go, like people passing on a street. Some people fall apart while others suffer a painful void due to the detachment. People that we love are truly the only people who can hurt us,whether intentionally or not.
Despite going through this cycle over and over again, we, as humans never stop meeting new people, making new connections. We must remember that along with meeting new people, we change as well. We have new beliefs, new intentions, ideas ; simply because, you've grown from your past. 
Life has a way to keep getting back to you with the same problems until you learn your lesson.So, let's be grateful for what we have and excited for what is yet to come. 
Passing people almost always teach us something about ourselves. 
Only you remain with yourself until the end.
The next time someone leaves, let yourself grieve, cherish the memories you had together, love yourself a little more and learn how you can do better next time.



Until Tuesday, 
hx.

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